Many divorced men are very happy with their decision to divorce!  Not every man goes through depression, guilt or sadness when they get a divorce.  In many ways it may be a breath of fresh air, or an extreme lightening of a burden!  Some men enjoy the fact that they can now go out with another woman they had their eye on, or get laid by multiple women without guilt, or flirt at will.  Living alone is very appealing to many divorced men.  You can get up when you want, eat when and what you want, watch what TV you want, etc.  This extreme sense of freedom can be very pleasant.  Many men find this the most appealing aspect of a divorce, much more so than sexual freedom (especially older men who have little desire for sex anyway).  It can be so pleasant in fact, that many men have no inclination to ever marry again.  Although there is always the possibility that loneliness may set in during old age.  That must be considered as well since it isn’t that appealing to be an old man and completely alone.

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